Ide buat Hang out bareng pacar/suami

Ngapain aja sich kalo pacaran?
kalo yg udah merit, kebersamaan ama suami tetep jalan gak? atau cuma sekedar nonton tv bareng saat makan malam?

yang butuh ide buat menambah kebersamaan bareng pacar atau suami

1. Bersepeda bersama, bisa keliling komplek atau keliling taman
2. Memasak bersama, saling tolong menolong memasak, dari mulai memotong2 sayuran sampe memasak
3. Pergi ke Gym bersama, biasa kalo kita ke gym, cuci mata kanan kiri, sesekali ajaklah suami/pacar ke gym.
4. Menanam tanaman/bunga/ pohon bersama
5. Nonton film, live show atau theater bareng
6. Mengecat ruangan ke warna baru yang disukai bersama
7. Pergi berbelanja pakaian dalam intim bersama
8. Bermain Scrabble bersama
9. makan keluar
10. Jalan2 ke pantai dan piknik bersama, kalo punya anak, ajak anak2
11. Main games ps2, xbox atau Wii bersama
12. Main tenis/ badminton bersama
13. Main catur 
14. main tts (teka teki silang bersama)
15. Baca buku romantis bersama
16. Duduk diluar sambil menikmati sunset sambil minum teh
17. Ikutan Cooking class bersama
18. Pergi ke ke coffeeshop dan hang out aja
19. Rencanain seharian buat jalan2 ke taman mini/ taman safari/ zoo atau cagar budaya 
20. Melihat live musik band favorit
21. Ikut  kursus menari bersama
22. main Bowling bersama
23. Memancing di sungai/ danau/laut
24. Saling memijat masing2
25. Joging bersama
26. Volunteer ke panti asuhan/ jompo bersama
27. main golf bersama
28. main Monopoly
29. kemping bersama
    
    masih banyak ide lainnya :
    Go-cart racing!
    Head out on a boat ride
    Head to a car dealer and test drive cars you’ve been dying to check out for you and your family
    Strawberry/Blueberry/Apple picking – depending on the season
    Movie night outside on an old school projector
    Sit and watch your wedding video together
    Make a family tree
    Spend the night at a local B&B
    Go hiking
    Head to a local museum
    Fitness class together
    Make your own sundaes
    Go ice skating
    Find a place where you can do a dinner boat or a dinner train!
    Make your own sushi
    Lay in your backyard and look up at the stars
    Go horseback riding
    Find a local art exhibit
    Swim in the ocean
    If you have a hot tub, jump in!
    Head to an amusement park
    Go zip-lining!
    Create something for your kids and surprise them – blanket fort, pillow fortress, LEGO cave, etc!
    Make a cake
    Dress up all fancy and head out to dinner, it doesn’t matter if it’s just for the fun of it
    Create a vision board of goals and dreams you both have for your lives ahead
    Clean out and organize the garage, your basement or your attic
    Go to church together
    Make breakfast and eat it in bed
    Plant a tree
    Create a special space outdoors for the summer
    Go to a planetarium
    Watch a fireworks display
    Take a bubble bath together
    Create a scavanger hunt for each other of clues that only the 2 of you would know and understand
    Visit a local animal shelter if you’re looking to adopt a new pet
    Take a karate class
    Whitewater rafting
    Head to the casino
    Make breakfast together in the morning
    Head to a water park

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merasa sering dibohongi? senyum tapi fake

When you hanging out with  lots of friend, do you think their smile are always genuine?
Most people are surprisingly bad at spotting fake smiles. One possible explanation for this is that it may be easier for people to get along if they don't always know what others are really feeling.

Although fake smiles often look very similar to genuine smiles, they are actually slightly different, because they are brought about by different muscles, which are controlled by different parts of the brain.

Fake smiles can be performed at will, because the brain signals that create them come from the conscious part of the brain and prompt the zygomaticus major muscles in the cheeks to contract. These are the muscles that pull the corners of the mouth outwards.

Genuine smiles, on the other hand, are generated by the unconscious brain, so are automatic. When people feel pleasure, signals pass through the part of the brain that processes emotion. As well as making the mouth muscles move, the muscles that raise the cheeks – the orbicularis oculi and the pars orbitalis – also contract, making the eyes crease up, and the eyebrows dip slightly.

Lines around the eyes do sometimes appear in intense fake smiles, and the cheeks may bunch up, making it look as if the eyes are contracting and the smile is genuine. But there are a few key signs that distinguish these smiles from real ones. For example, when a smile is genuine, the eye cover fold - the fleshy part of the eye between the eyebrow and the eyelid - moves downwards and the end of the eyebrows dip slightly.


If you think you can spot the difference between fake smile and genuine smile try THIS

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